Submit Borang Kebenaran Berkahwin

Cerita ini berdasarkan pengalaman sendiri semata-mata. maybe org lain, lain pengalamannya.

Tersebutlah kisah pada hari tersebut, aku ditemani ibu dan adik-adik singgah di rumah jurunikah sebelum meneruskan perjalanan ke Pejabat Agama. Kebetulan aku menyewa homestay untuk rombongan pengantin lelaki daripada ustaz tersebut. Selesai dua urusan di situ, Kami sempat dijamu pelbagai kuih raya dan minuman yang menyegarkan. Almaklum masih dalam mood raya.

Setelah itu, aku singgah menurunkan adik- adik di Giant dan terus ke Pejabat Agama. Fikirku tidakla adik yang paling bongsu merengek dikala aku sedang menyelesaikan urusan kaunter. Aku tiba di depan kaunter tepat jam 3.30 petang bersama ibu.

Sejurus aku menyatakan hasrat kepada petugas kaunter untuk menyerahkan borang permohonan berkahwin, salah seorang daripada mereka berkata, " Kenapa lambat sangat dik. Kaunter dah tutup. Orang yang bertanggungjawab menerima borang tersebut dah balik." Aku cuba berdalih, "Tapi setahu saya kaunter tutup pukul 4 petang." Namun akhirnya aku beralah dan hanya meminta mereka memeriksa adakah dokumen yang aku bawa sudah lengkap. Supaya nanti apabila ayah menghantar borang tersebut di hari lain tiada masalah yang timbul.

Paling ralat apabila aku keluar, terpampang di pintu pejabat tersebut :-

WAKTU URUSAN : 7.30 pagi -4.00petang

Hmm... You figure it yourself what was in my mind that time. huhu...

Moral : Awal itu lebih selamat.

HIV Test

Since there're so many thing to be done for a wedding i decided to write down some of the details in this blog. Hopefully it's going to be if not much a little bit useful for a new bride to be(B2B). My own brothers and sisters perhaps. I afraid I might missed some info when they ask me about this in the future if I didn't note this somewhere.

Back to above topic. It's one of the item in check-list provided by Pejabat Agama daerah Kuala Terengganu. So by hook or by crook a B2B have to go through the test.

As I'm working in Bandar Utama, I decided to go for the test at Kinik Kesihatan Kelana Jaya. I planned to do both HIV and Talassemia screening but when I called they said they don't have Talassemia test because it's just a small clinic.

In short the steps for the test are:

1. Call to make a appointment. Mine was made a day before.
2. Go to the clinic and bring along the form provided by Pejabat Agama(if any). Bring 2 copies or you may make the copy at the clinic's office.
3. Go straight to counter 1 and check your appointment. The personnel will give a form. Fill it up and return it back to him/her. Then wait for your name to be called.
4. When it's your turn, pay RM1 to complete the registration process at the counter and the personnel will give you a set of papers and he/she will ask you to bring them to counter 20 (Blood Test Counter). Then again wait for your name to be called.
5. When it's your turn, the test will be carried out by taking your blood sample. It's just a tiny drop. After that, wait for the result.
6. When you name is called this time you should be happy because it's the last one. They'll give you your form with the result and you may go home already.
7. Done HIV Test!

The waiting part was not fun at all... huhu...

The story of a faded hobby

Since I was little I love to sew things. If I remember it correctly i started with my tudung which at that time I had sort of allergies to brooch. So to avoid myself from getting itch by the brooch, I just sew my tudung straight away and I do not need to wear any brooch.

I think I was quite gifted that I need no one to show me how to but I just learn it after some observations on done project by others. Alhamdulillah, I must thank Allah for such gift. Because I was still relatively young (I was in primary school) some older people are impressed with my sewing. Ever since I love to sew things using any piece of cloth I can get at home. Sometimes I got some from kain perca of my baju raya and sometimes I just recycle old clothes. Of course I ask my Mom permission to tear the old cloth before I start any “recycling” project.

That was the earliest history….

Nowadays, I didn’t have much of the talent anymore. I guess it’s faded away over time due to less practice. Sungguh rugi. Huhu… but I still sew small things sometimes. It’s something I love to do when I’m bored. Sadly when it comes to big sewing project I’m getting bored because of sewing. It takes too much of my time to finish. Huhu… How not patience I am…

However I’m trying to make myself fall in love in sewing again. I’ve got some fancy project in mu to-do list. Hopefully at least one of it will be a successfully done project. If it really does I’ll upload it here J

one of it is this colourful Pouf

No mood to work

Sometimes the 'mood' to work just didn't come. Maybe I left it at home. Or maybe somewhere else because I couldn’t get it back. I really hope that there's something I can do to get rid of the laziness but it isn’t that easy.

At this kind of moment too many wonders are passing my mind: - How long am I going to stay this way? When am I going to achieve more? What have I learned? Have I contributed something? Do I really play my part? Bla… Bla… Bla… But the most important thing, what have I done to satisfy myself? Sadly, I’ve to say not much because I don’t feel satisfied just yet. I’ve not becoming a better person than I used to be. Perhaps, it’s worse. This old song really means something but how can I be one…

“ Umat Islam harus cemerlang

Hari ini mesti lebih baik dari semalam

Jangan buang masa

Siapa kata kita tidak boleh

Kita ada Allah maha kuasa

Kita punya kuasa tenaga

Doa sebagai senjata”

Feeling useless it the worst thing a human being should fell. People say everybody has their very own unique part. Without that part this world will never be complete. No matter it’s the biggest part or the smallest it’s still an important part. But not knowing what our part is makes things more complicated. There’s no way to justify either I’ve done what I could or what I should…

Frustrated?

Am I frustrated? What for? It dont even makes things any better...

Just try to let it go. That's the best solution. But the question is how... maybe I should just keep trying. huhuhu

When the time comes

After a very long requirement gathering phase, it's now to make thing really happening. Before this, it's just in a bunch of papers with so many words, diagrams and weird so called IT-terms. Sometimes I wonder why they need to use such bombastic word instead of using a common, easy to understand one. Probably they want to make it looks more professional. Eventually I just can say, "Suke ati korang la. Janji, when I try to comprehend it someone can elaborate it for me".

So far three of us from MIS have been assigned few tasks. Guess what, we don't even know how to start???And all three of us kantoi! Hahaha... Padan muka kitorg! Unfortunately for me, I'll be on leave tomorrow. So by hook or by crook I have to do something. Maybe I can't complete all but at least I’m half-way.

Gambatte kudasai to myself and the team!

The Mayonnaise Jar - A Small Bite of Philosophy Lesson

When things in your life seem, Almost too much to handle, When 24 Hours in a day is not enough, Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar And proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again If the jar was full... They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand
And poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded With an unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced Two cups of coffee from under the table And poured the entire contents Into the jar, effectively Filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, As the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.. The golf balls are the important things - God, family, children, health, friends, and favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost
And only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter Like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else -- The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, You will never have room for the things that are Important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things That are critical to your happiness. Playwith your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time To clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first -- The things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand And inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'